Wedding Night Etiquettes in Islam


We live in a hypersexualised world. Yet, when that hour beckons, many of those who have lived a chaste life would admit to being quite clueless about how to spend those first few jeweled moments in intimacy together.

As a complete mode of living, it should come as no surprise that Islam offers solutions for this time and all other occasions and eventualities that may come with marital life.

And fully cognisant of the psychologies of both husband and wife, and the natural reservations and inhibitions of two individuals who have barely met each other, Islamic guidelines for the first night pay more attention on confidence building, psychological bonding and nurturing the spiritual foundations of the sacred union of Nikah, than sexual relations itself.

“It is important to note that engaging in sexual relations on the first night is not necessary,” writes Mufti Muhammad ibn Adam al Kawthari in his Islamic Guide to Sexual Relations.
“The husband should not hasten in taking his wife’s virginity, but rather he should approach the matter with extreme calmness, even if it takes a few days. The newly married
couple have all their lives before them for sexual relations, and there is no need to make haste in this regard. Much of the time during the first night should be spent in getting
to know one another, sharing each other’s outlook on life and how their marital life should be lived in accordance with Islamic teachings. They may, however, begin to be
intimate with one another, if they feel comfortable.”


Here are 4 practical Islamic guidelines for what you can do as a couple on your first night of Nikah:

  1. Give a gift

The Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allah exalt his mention ) said: “Exchange gifts, as that will lead to increasing your love to one another.” [Al-Bukhari].

Regarding the first night of marriage, there is no stipulated gift – it could involve anything permissible, big or small, according to one’s means.

A husband could also offer his wife something to drink as is found in the hadith narrated by Asmaa’ bint Yazid ibn As-Sakan who said: “I beautified ‘As’ishah for Allaah’s Messenger, then called him to come to see her unveiled. He came, sat next to her, and brought a large cup of milk from which he drank. Then, he offered it to ‘Aa’ishah, but she lowered her head and felt shy. I scolded her and said to her: “Take from the hand of the Prophet.” She then took it and drank some. Then, the Prophet said to her, “Give some to your companion.” At that point, I said: “O Messenger of Allaah, rather take it yourself and drink, and then give it to me from your hand.” He took it, drank some, and then offered it to me. I sat down and put it on my kness. Then, I began rotating it and following it with my lips in order that I might hit the spot from which the Prophet had drunk.” [Musnad Ahmad]

  1. Read Salaah together

It is desirable for the husband and wife to pray 2 rakaat together on their wedding night. This has been narrated from the earliest generation of Muslims:

‘When your wife comes to you, pray 2 rakaat. Then, ask Allaah for the good of that which has come to you, and seek refuge in Him from its evil. Then it is up to you and it is up to your wife.’” [Musannaf abi Shaiba]

It is also narrated on the authority of Shaqeeq who said: “A man named Abu Hareez came and said: ‘I have married a young girl, and I am afraid that she will despise me.’ ‘Abdullah ibn Mas’ood said to him: “Verily, closeness is from Allaah, and hatred is from Shaitaan, who wishes to make despicable that which Allaah has allowed. So, when your wife comes to you, tell her to pray behind you 2 rakaat.’” [Ref: Ibn Abi Shaibah and at-Tabaraani and ‘Abdur-Razzaaq: Saheeh]

  1. Sprinkle the water of love and make Dua for each other

On the first night of marriage, when in seclusion with one’s wife, hold the forelocks (hair of the forehead) of her head, sprinkle water upon her and recite the following Du’aa:

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ
(O Allaah, I ask You for the goodness within her and the goodness that You have made her inclined towards, and I take refuge with You from the evil within her and the evil that You have made her inclined towards) [Bukhari/abu Dawood]

The wife should also make dua for her husband, just adapting the wording of the Dua above:
Allahumma inni asaluka khairahu wa khaira ma jabaltahu alayh; wa a’oothu bika min shari-hee wa shari ma jabaltahu alayh

Besides this stipulated Dua, one can make any other Duas from the heart and also include Quraanic Duas for marital bliss such as:

  1. Seek the protection of Allah SWT from shaytaan

If the couple decide to get intimate, the couple should recite the following before involving themselves in relations:
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبْ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا
In the name of Allah, O Allah, distance shaytaan from us and distance shaytaan from that which you grant us. [Bukhari]

We make Dua that your union be a blessed one, where not only the bodies meet, but the hearts meet as well

FAQ

What should we do on first night of marriage?

Relax, enjoy your first night together

We are human beings and we make mistake so don’t worry and take a deep breath, then relax. As one of the most essential first night tips for bride, relax and enjoy the present. if you’re busy with the past or future, all that anxiety won’t do any good.

What should a bride do on her wedding night?

10 Things A Bride Should Know Before Her Wedding Night
Know Your Customs. …
The First Time Will Be Awkward For Both Of You. …
Pick Some Comfy Lingerie. …
The Night Is Not Only About Sex! …
Go Slow. …
The Wetter, The Better. …
You Will Learn Every day. …
Know About The Contraception.

What should we do on first night of marriage in Islam?

13 Things You Should Know Before the Wedding Night
1, Accept Sex as a Healthy and Halaal Part of Life. …
2, Intercourse Is Not a Must in the First Night. …
3, It Doesn’t Have to Hurt. …
4, You Won’t Necessarily Bleed a Lot. …
5, “Hymen Check” does not Really Determine Virginity. …
6, Never Skip Foreplay. …
7, Lube Can Make Everything Better.

Balo Ko Lamba Karne ki Dua


This wazifa Balo Ko Lamba Karne ki Dua is one of the easiest one and has shown number favorable results. I know there are so many girls & women even boys & men are always keen to grow their hair long. If they are encountering hair fall due to generic problems like pollution, atmosphere, climate or recovered from a disease. They can perform this wazifa, Insha ALLAH it will work. Don’t doubt!!

Bismillah hirRahmaan nirRaheem
With The Name of ALLAH, The Gracious and The Merciful
SallALLAHU ‘Alayhe Wasallam

How to Perform this Wazifa Balon ko Lamba or Ghana Karne ki Dua?

  • Kisi bhi din jab shuru karna ho;
  • Kisi bhi waqt parh sakte hai ye wazifa;
  • Sabse pahle taz wudu bana lijiye;
  • Upar di gayi ayat ko 121 martaba parh lijiye Bismillah Shareef ke saath har dafah;
  • Fir jo ap tel istimal mein lete hai uspar dum kar dijiye;
  • Agar koi tel istimal nahi lete to fir lena shuru kar dijiye jo bhi tel apko suit kare;
  • Ye wazifa sirf ek martaba hi karna hai;
  • 21 roz tak balo mein ye tel lagaye kisi bhi waqt;
  • Insha ALLAH balo bahot jald lambe aur ghane ho jayenge insha ALLAH, Ameen
  • Gharu Talab: Khwateen haiz ki halat mein 7 roz tak ye wazifa qatayi na kare. Haa, khwateen apne balo mein ye dum kiya hua tel haiz/mahwari ki halat mein laga sakti hai.

Wazifa Kese Karna Hai

On any day when you are starting this wazifa;
Anytime during the entire day;
Make a fresh ablution;
Recite 121 times the above-written verse with Bismillah Shareef each time;
Then blow on the oil which you use in your hair;
If you don’t use any hair oil then you can start using whichever suits you;
Perform this wazifa only once;
Apply this blown oil on your hair anytime during the day for 21 days continuously without skipping any single day;
Insha ALLAH you will notice that your hair will start growing at rapid rate and will be long soon, Ameen.
Note: Females must not perform this wazifa during their menses for 7 days. They can apply this hair oil even in their menses also.

बालों को लम्बा करने की दुआ हिंदी में-

वज़ीफ़ा कैसे करना है-

किसी भी दिन जब शुरू करना हो ये वज़ीफ़ा कर सकते है;
कोई भी वक़्त कर सकते है;
सबसे पहले ताज़ा वुज़ू बना लीजिये;
क़ुरान-ए-पाक की सूरह #41 अल फुस्सिलत की आयत #44 का एक हिस्सा (जो की ऊपर लिखी हुई है) को 121 मर्तबा बिस्मिल्लाह शरीफ के साथ हर मर्तबा पढ़ लीजिये;
फिर जो आप तेल इस्तिमाल में लेते है उसपर पढ़ कर दम कर दीजिये;
अगर कोई तेल इस्तिमाल नहीं लेते तो फिर लेना शुरू कर दीजिये जो भी तेल आपको बेहतर लगे;
ये वज़ीफ़ा सिर्फ उस तेल पर सिर्फ एक मर्तबा ही करना है;
21 रोज़ तक बालों में ये तेल लगाये किसी भी वक़्त;
इंशा अल्लाह अज़्ज़वजल बाल बहौत जल्द ही लम्बे और घने हो जायेंगे, आमीन!

Amal Wazifa for new house


Acha Ghar Milne Ka Wazifa-Makan Banane Ki Dua

Is daur mein acha ghar milna itna asan nahi raha. Aur agar koi shakhs zameen bhi kharidna chahe to ye aur bhi mushkil ho chala hai. Is amal ka maqsad in teenon maqasid yani acha ghar kharidne, acha makan banane ya phir zameen kharidne ke liye hai. Acha ghar milne ka wazifa inse wabasta tamam zaruriyat poori karega Insha ALLAH.→ ALLAHummaghfirli Waliwalidayya Dua

Ek Acha Ghar Milne Ka Wazifa-Alishan Makan Banane Ki Dua

Bismillah hirRahmaan nirRaheem
With The Name of ALLAH, The Gracious and The Merciful
SallALLAHU ‘Alayhe Wasallam

Acha Ghar Milne Ka Wazifa tarjuma ke sath

Agar ap naya ghar kharidna chahte hai. Ya makan banane ki shuruwat karna chahte hai. Aur yahan tak ke ek ache makan ke liye ek achi khasi zameen kharidna chahte hai. Naye Kapde Pehanne Ki Dua yahan dekhiye.

To acha ghar milne ka wazifa behad kaarguzar Durood-e-Pak ka amal hai. Paison ki aur baqi intizamat ki koshish bhi karte rahiyega. Is amal ko bhi parhte rahiyega. Insha ALLAH dekhte hi dekhte kuch hi dinon mein ap ache ghar ke malik ban jayenge.

Acha Ghar Milne Ka Wazifa Kaise Karna Hai? (Roman Urdu)

Jo bhi acha ghar banana, zameen ya makaan kharidna chahte ho. Wo is amal ko shuru karein.
Wuzu mein rehte hue.

Juma ke din asar ki namaz se farigh ho kar.
Ek hazar (1000) martaba upar pesh ki gayi Durood Shareef parhiye.

Phir dono hath uthakar ALLAH Jalla Jalaaluhoo se apna zati makan banane, ya zameen kharidne, ya phir makan kharidne ke liye dua kijiye.

Jab tak asbab na nazar aye, aur maqsad pura na ho is amal ko har juma ko parhte rahiye. Iski k oi miyad nahi hai.

Insha ALLAH jald hi aapko acha ghar mil jayega, zameen ke malik banna chahenge to zameen kharid lenge. Aur agar apni zameen par acha ghar banana chahte hai to wo bhi kar payenge.

Acha Ghar Milne- Naya Makaan Banane ya Zameen Kharidne Ki Dua Hindi Mein

अच्छा घर मिलने- नया मकान बनाने या ज़मीन ख़रीदने की दुआ हिंदी में

इस दौर में अच्छा घर मिलना इतना आसान नहीं रहा| और अगर कोई शख़्स ज़मीन भी खरीदना चाहे तो ये और भी मुश्किल हो चला है| लाखों और करोड़ों से काम तो कहीं गुफ्तगू नही होती| सफर की दुआ हिंदी में यहाँ देखिये

एक ग़रीब या आम आदमी तो अच्छा मकान खरीदने के बारे में सोच भी नहीं सकता|

और जब ज़मीन की बात आए, तो ज़मीन खरीदना क्या आसान है? जी नहीं| क़तई आसान नहीं|

कई लोग तो ज़मीन खरीदने के लिए ज़िन्दगी भर पूँजी इकठ्ठा करने में लगा देते है|

इस मुश्किल और सख़्त ज़रुरियात वाले मक़सद को हासिल करने के लिए ये ज़ाती मकान या ज़मीन खरीदने का ये वज़ीफ़ा कारगुज़ार साबित होगा| इन्शा अल्लाह|

इस अमल का मक़सद इन तीनों मक़ासिद यानि अच्छा घर ख़रीदने, अच्छा मकान बनाने या फिर ज़मीन ख़रीदने के लिए है| अच्छा घर मिलने का वज़ीफ़ा इनसे वाबस्ता तमाम ज़रुरियात पूरी करेगा इन्शा अल्लाह|

अगर आप नया घर खरीदना चाहते है| या मकान बनाने की शुरुवात करना चाहते है| और यहाँ तक के एक अचे मकान के लिए एक अच्छी ख़ासी ज़मीन ख़रीदना चाहते है|

तो अच्छा घर मिलने का वज़ीफ़ा बेहद कारगुज़ार दुरूद-ए-पाक का अमल है| पैसों की और बाक़ी इन्तिज़ामत की कोशिश भी करते रहिएगा| साथ-साथ इस अमल को भी पढ़ते रहिएगा| इन्शा अल्लाह देखते ही देखते कुछ ही दिनों में आप अच्छे घर के मालिक बन जाएंगे|

Salatul Hajat ki Namaz Padhne ka Tarika yahan dekhiye.

वज़ीफ़ा कैसे करना है?

अच्छा घर मिलने का वज़ीफ़ा हिंदी ज़ुबान में

जो भी अच्छा घर, ज़मीन ख़रीदना या मकान बनाना चाहते हो| वो इस अमल को शुरू करें|
वुज़ू में रहते हुए|

जुमा के दिन असर की नमाज़ से फ़ारिग़ हो कर|
एक हज़ार (1000) मरतबा ऊपर पेश की गयी दुरूद शरीफ पढ़िए|

फिर दोनों हाथ उठाकर अल्लाह जल्ला जलालूहू से अपना ज़ाती मकान बनाने, या ज़मीन ख़रीदने, या फिर मकान ख़रीदने के लिए दुआ कीजिये|

जब तक असबाब न नज़र आए, और मक़सद पूरा न हो इस अमल को हर जुमा को पढ़ते रहिये| इसकी कोई मियाद नहीं है|

इन्शा अल्लाह जल्द ही आपको अच्छा घर मिल जायेगा, ज़मीन के मालिक बनना चाहेंगे तो ज़मीन खरीद लेंगे| और अगर अपनी ज़मीन पर अच्छा सा घर बनाने की ख़्वाहिश रखते होंगे तो वो भी कर पाएंगे|

FAQ

What is the Dua for entering home?

Upon Entering Home – 1
Bismil-lahi walajna, wabismil-lahi kharajna, waAAala rabbina tawakkalna. In the name of Allah we enter and in the name of Allah we leave, and upon our Lord we place our trust.

What do Muslims do when moving into a new house?

Be grateful for the blessing of Allah (سبحانه و تعالى), for gratitude is one of the noblest of attitudes.
Make food and invite people to come and eat, for that is a way of showing gratitude to Allah.
Reciting the du’aa: ‘Ma sha’ Allah la quwwata illa Billaah (that which Allah wills (will come to pass)!

What Dua to read to get what you want?

The Surah Al Fatah is one of the best Surah to read when you want to get something from Allah Subhan Wa Tallah. Make a fresh ablution. Recite Surah Fatah 21 times and pray to almighty to give you what you want.

What do you say when you leave the house?

In a formal setting I would simply say: Thank you very much for the invitation. I’d love to stay longer, but I have to go. (If you’re leaving early) or Thank you very much for everything. I think I should leave.

How do you perform Ruqyah on House?

Method of self-ruqya
Sit down in a quiet area with the intention to make ruqya on yourself. …
Seek refuge in Allah from the shaytaan three times — Aouthubillahi min-ash-shaytaan arrajeem.
Mention the name of Allah three times — bismillahir-rahman nir-raheem.
Read sura fatiha three times.
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Dua to improve eyesight


Vision Problems of Eyes-Islamic Cure Tips

Bismillah hirRahmaan nirRaheem
With The Name of ALLAH, The Gracious and The Merciful
SallALLAHU ‘Alayhe Wasallam

Islamic Way of Improving Eyesight

Hadees mein nazar ko tez karne ke nuskhe kayi maujood hai. Unme se chand nushke ham is post mein parenge. Ap unhe apni rozana ka mamoom banayenge to Insha ALLAH apki nazar hamesha tez rahegi. Aur chashma kabhi nahi lagega.

Islamic Cure for Eye Diseases with Tips and Remedies

Sunnate Nabwi SallALLAHU ‘Alayhe Wasallam par amal karte hue rozana baqaydgee se miswaak kijiye, isse ankhon ki roshni barhegi Insha ALLAH.
Khana khane ke bad haath dho kar aur kulli kar ke dono geele hath muh par pher lijiye, isse ankhon ki roshni tez hogi. Insha ALLAH.
Wuzu karte waqt sar ka masah khoob tar hathon se karein, Insha ALLAH ankhon ki roshni mein khoob izafah mehsoos karenge.
Roz kayi bar sir mein aur daadhi ke balon mein kanghi karein, is se bekar gas nikal jati hai aur chashm ki nazar tez hoti hai.
Jism ke nichle hisse ki warzish (sabse behtar panj waqta namaz) paanw ki malish karvana aur dabwana nazar ki kamzori me mufeed hai.
Subah-o-sham shabnam se tar hari-hari ghas par nange pair chalna ankhon ki roshni me izafah karta hai, iske aur bhi kayi fawaid hai.
Maldaaron k liye badam, pista aur dusri ghizayein, jabke ghareebon ke liye kachchi sabziyan, shaljam, gajar aur saunf istimal karna nazar ke liye behad faydah mand hai.
(Azz Idaara)

Islamic Way of Improving Eyesight (Urdu Version)

کمزور نظر سے نجات پائیں، یا اللّٰه ویبسائٹ کے خاص نسخے

١. سنّتِ نبویؐ پر عمل کرتے ہوئے روزانہ باقاعدگی سے مسواک کیجیئے۔ اس سے آنکھوں کی روشنی بڑھے گی۔ انشاء اللّٰه۔

٢. کھانا کھانے کے بعد ہاتھ دھو کر اور کلّی کر کے دونوں گیلے ہاتھ منہ پر پھیر لیجیئے۔ اس سے آنکھوں کی روشنی تیز ہو گی۔ انشاء اللّٰه۔

٣. وضو کرتے وقت سر کا مسح خوب تر ہاتھوں سے کریں۔ انشاء اللّٰه آنکھوں کی روشنی میں خوب اضافہ محسوس کریں گے۔

٤. روز کئی بار سر میں اور داڑھی کے بالوں میں کنگھی کریں۔ اس سے بیکار گیس نکل جاتی ہے اور چشم کی نظر تیز ہوتی ہے۔

٥. جسم کے نچلے حصے کی ورزش (سب سے بہتر پنج وقتہ نماز)، پاؤں کی مالش کروانا اور دبوانا نظر کی کمزوری میں مفید ہے۔

٦. صبح شام شبنم سے تر ہری ہری گھاس پر ننگے پیر چلنا آنکھوں کی روشنی میں اضافہ کرتا ہے۔ اسکے اور بھی کئی فوائد ہیں۔

٧. مالداروں کیلئے بادام، پستہ اور دوسری غذائیں، جبکہ غریبوں کیلئے کچی سبزیاں، شلجم، گاجر اور سونف استعمال کرنا نظر کیلئے بیحد فائدہ مند ہے۔

(اذ ادارہ)

Islamic Health Tips for Eyes

Below mentioned 7 tips to improve eyesight are taken from Hadith About Eyesight. Also, if you recite dua-noor daily and blow on your finger tips and rub on your eyes, your eyesight will improve Insha ALLAH, this is also known as Surah for Better Eyesight. This is a very easy and strong wazifa for eye disease, you can practice daily. It is popularly known as Quranic Eye Drops.

Get Rid of Eye Vision Weakness through Islamic Ways to Improve Eyesight (English Version)

This is also a Sunnate Nabwi of SallALLAHU ‘Alayhe Wasallam, if you follow this sunnah your eyesight will definitely improved. Use Miswak to clean your teeth every day. Better before every ablution, you will gain rewards too. Miswak is one of the well known Islamic Remedies for Eye Problems.
After having meals, post washing your hands and gargle wipe your both hands on both the eyes gently. Insha ALLAH you will gain your eyesight.
While you make an ablution, perform masah (the act of ritually cleaning the head in an ablution) do it thoroughly with water.
Every day, comb your hair of your head and beard number of times. This will help push out the gas from your stomach and it will increase your vision Insha ALLAH.
Perform regular exercise especially of the lower part of your body. Get a massage of your legs.
Daily in the morning and in the evening walk on fresh green grass with bare feet. This will boost your eyesight and it has many more other benefits for your body.
Almonds, pistachios and other dry fruits for the rich. Whereas, raw vegetables, turnip, carrot, and anise for the poor helps increasing eyesight Insha ALLAH and also has immense benefits.

कमज़ोर नज़र से निजात पाने के या अल्लाह वेबसाइट के नुस्खे हिंदी ज़ुबान में

सुन्नते नबवी सल्लल्लाहु अलयहे वसल्लम पर अमल करते हुए रोज़ाना बाक़ायदगी से मिस्वाक कीजिये, इससे आँखों की रौशनी बढ़ेगी इन्शा अल्लाह|
हर मरतबाह खाना खाने के बाद हाथ धोने और कुल्ली करने के बाद गीले हाथ आँखों पर भी आ जाए ऐसे मुँह पर फेर लीजिये| इससे आँखों की रौशनी में इज़ाफह होगा| इन्शा अल्लाह|
वुज़ू करते वक़्त सर का मसह ख़ूब तर हाथों से करें, इन्शा अल्लाह आँखों की रौशनी में ख़ूब इज़ाफह महसूस करेंगे|
रोज़ कई बार सर और दाढ़ी के बालों में कंघी करें, इस से फ़ुज़ूल गैस जिस्म से निकल जाती है और नज़र-ऐ-चश्म भी तेज़ होती है|
जिस्म के निचले हिस्से की वर्ज़िश (सबसे बेहतर पन्ज वक्ता नमाज़) पांव की मालिश करवाना और दबवाना नज़र की कमज़ोरी में मुफीद साबित होता है|
सुबह-ओ-शाम शबनम से तर हरी-हरी घास पर नंगे पैर चलना आँखों की रौशनी में इज़ाफह करता है, इसके और भी कई फवाइद है|
मालदारों के लिए बादाम, पिस्ता और दूसरी ग़िज़ाएं, जबकि ग़रीबों के लिए कच्ची सब्ज़ियां, शलजम, गाजर और सौंफ इस्तिमाल करना नज़र के लिए बेहद फायदा मन्द है|

FAQ

What is the fastest way to cure weak eyesight?

Keep reading to learn other ways you can improve your vision.
Get enough key vitamins and minerals. …
Don’t forget the carotenoids. …
Stay fit. …
Manage chronic conditions. …
Wear protective eyewear. …
That includes sunglasses. …
Follow the 20-20-20 rule. …
Quit smoking.

How can I improve my eyesight in 7 days?

Eat for your eyes. Eating carrots is good for your vision. …
Exercise for your eyes. Since eyes have muscles, they could use some exercises to remain in good shape. …
Full body exercise for vision. …
Rest for your eyes. …
Get enough sleep. …
Create eye-friendly surroundings. …
Avoid smoking. …
Have regular eye exams.